Today I ran my first marathon. It was one of my goals by the time I turn 30. The other two were to complete my master’s and have a baby. I tried so hard on one that I totally missed the other. Oh well, life is a crap chute and sometimes you are standing in the wrong place. I am content with 1 for 3.
I trained for a 4:15 finish. I finished in 4:45. Off by 30 minutes, but it was 82 degrees with 70 percent humidity. I am happy. I enjoyed every moment. It is truly a high. One of the best moments was about 5 miles in when I see Mr. Jitter’s standing next to a very familiar face not ever see by me without a Bowtie and a smile. Dr. Bowtie still had a smile, from ear to ear, but ditched the Bowtie for a Sunday wear t-shirt. I jokingly told him to look for me at Twin Cities at our exit appointment, knowing he lived relatively close to the marathon route. He did look for me and he made my day.
This man is amazing. As soon as I spotted him, I ran into his arms (he can now add sweat to the list of other body fluids of mine that he has handled) and yelled that I loved him. I meant it. I adore him. He could retire. He could make more money. He easily could have looked at our test results and turned us away. But, he didn’t. Not only is he an amazing and award winning fertility specialist, but he is human.
Mr. Jitters waited until the end of the race to tell me that as I ran away he wiped tears from his eyes. I know he wanted so badly to help us get pregnant and he feels our frustrated as much as us. His wife was with him and I know I told her thank you for sharing him with us all – he is amazing. I want her to know how much I do really appreciate it. He works almost 7 days a week – long hours – and he took part of his day off to support a patient in another less traditional way.
After 4 years of trying to get pregnant, I didn’t reach my goal, but I didn’t stand still either. Believe me, Dr. Bowtie will be getting an invite to our Champagne Toast when we return from Ethiopia with our baby. Not only was he part of our process, he is family now.
October 8, 2007 at 5:10 am
Oh, you made me cry! I’m so freaking proud of you – you are so strong and amazing and beautiful. And anyone who knows you, knows this. I’m sure Dr. Bowtie was so proud of you and I’m sure you have a special place in his heart. xoxo, pythia
October 8, 2007 at 5:20 am
Wow! Congratulations! That really is something to be proud of!
October 8, 2007 at 7:54 am
*bawl*
That was so amazing, both that you ran a marathon (I can barely run a block w/o collapsing) and that your Doctor stood with your husband in support.
We each have a marathon to run in life. Congrats for getting through two of them intact.
October 9, 2007 at 12:08 am
Wow! A marathon! I’m totally in awe. That’s a huge accomplishment.
And that Dr Bowties is one seriously sweet man and a shining example to other doctors in general.
October 9, 2007 at 7:12 am
YAY! What an incredible accomplishment… that’s no small goal. You rule.
Your Dr. sounds like an amazing human–does he make house calls on the east coast?
October 9, 2007 at 7:48 pm
That is truly amazing. Props to you for such an accomplishment.
And having your doctor there…Awesome.
October 9, 2007 at 10:43 pm
Congrats on the marathon, you should be proud! Great to hear your doc is such a nice (real!) person, I’m sure that was very motivating. You obviously made an impact on him, as well.